Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward?
I'm a therapist based in Brighton & Hove, and I offer support through life transitions - including those moments that feel hard to name. In this post, I reflect on change, impermanence, and how therapy can help us navigate times of uncertainty and growth.
There is something hauntingly beautiful about the remains of Brighton’s West Pier - a skeletal silhouette on the horizon, worn by salt, storms, and time. Though neglected and slowly falling into the sea, its presence is still striking - a reminder of days gone by, and of the impermanence of all things. Nothing stays the same; what was once vibrant and full of life inevitably changes.
In this, the pier mirrors our own lives. We all carry structures that once defined us - roles, relationships, ways of being, beliefs we held about ourselves and the world, that eventually break down, sometimes gradually, sometimes all at once. These changes can feel disorienting, even painful. But like the pier, the parts of ourselves that feel broken or eroded are not without meaning or beauty. They are part of our story.
There can be grace in the ruins. And in learning to face them, we find our way forward.
How Therapy Can Support You Through Change
Therapy offers a space to explore what change brings - to sit with it and understand it, to find your way through rather than rush to fix it. It can help you meet the parts of yourself that feel lost, overwhelmed, or uncertain with care and compassion.
Sometimes, what we need most is simply the space to be heard, to make sense of what’s shifting, and to be reminded that we are not alone in it.
"One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious."
- Carl Jung
Seeking Therapy in Brighton or Online?
If you’re in Brighton or Hove, or prefer online therapy, I offer a calm and reflective space to support you through whatever changes you’re facing - whether you're dealing with loss, identity shifts, anxiety, or a sense of being stuck.
Learn more about working with me here